Also, thanks to everyone who generously shared their thoughts last week about how to take a more charitable read. I have reached out to each of you to include your thought-provoking words in my latest article, which is still a WIP.
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It's not yet published, mainly because I’m still thinking, but also because I’ve been doing a UX research project for a very large Fintech. I’ve been interviewing their customers all week and that’s been a fun way to engage my brain. UX Research (and Design) is another niche of mine.
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Speaking of, I'm open to new projects, small to large. If you have a question that needs answering, let's chat!
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Lastly, I leave you with a thought, to end well:
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\n“You are under no obligation to remain the same person you were a year ago, a month ago, or even a day ago. You are here to create yourself, continuously.” — Richard Feynman
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I hope you start the next thing well, too, Kim
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PS. This week's underthinking link is a checkbox race — very silly, but feels like progress, especially as you get closer to the end flag.
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Push or Pull?
Published 5 months ago • 2 min read
Don't wait until you're in the water.
Swimmers by Sergio Souza from Pexels
This week I've been thinking about closings and openings. Here are three things on that theme to turn overthinking into expert thinking:
Also, thanks to everyone who generously shared their thoughts last week about how to take a more charitable read. I have reached out to each of you to include your thought-provoking words in my latest article, which is still a WIP.
It's not yet published, mainly because I’m still thinking, but also because I’ve been doing a UX research project for a very large Fintech. I’ve been interviewing their customers all week and that’s been a fun way to engage my brain. UX Research (and Design) is another niche of mine.
Speaking of, I'm open to new projects, small to large. If you have a question that needs answering, let's chat!
Lastly, I leave you with a thought, to end well:
“You are under no obligation to remain the same person you were a year ago, a month ago, or even a day ago. You are here to create yourself, continuously.” — Richard Feynman
I hope you start the next thing well, too, Kim
PS. This week's underthinking link is a checkbox race — very silly, but feels like progress, especially as you get closer to the end flag.
If you know somebody who might get value from this newsletter, why not share with them? Forward this email to help them gain more clarity and confidence about what they're doing, too:
Hello! My name is Kim Witten and I’ve spent four decades overthinking absolutely everything. I’ve turned this ability into a super skill to get stuff done and now my mission is to help others do the same. Read more about my journey