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Befriend the gremlins


Every Thursday I share three useful things to help you turn overthinking into expert thinking. Here are this week’s picks:

1.

Once upon a time, I had a problem with a thought gremlin called Dread Buddy.

This little monster would visit me in the hours before an important meeting and wreak all sorts of havoc on my day.

“Oh look who showed up 3 hours early to my weekly meeting, it’s Dread Buddy!”

Past me might have let Dread Buddy run wild, trampling my calendar and headspace. Nowadays, I let this doom pet sit beside me. If it starts getting fussy, I take a moment to hear it out and then say, “Psst. Simmer down, I’ve got work to do.”

Here’s how to tame and befriend your Dread Buddy (and other thought gremlins).

2.

Use the Disapproval Matrix to help you decide if you really need to give that piece of feedback any weight.

3.

I keep going back to this infographic from Janis Ozolins on LinkedIn:

What made you think? Reply and let me know!
Kim

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Kim Witten, PhD - Coach & Consultant

Hello! My name is Kim Witten and I’ve spent four decades overthinking absolutely everything. I’ve turned this ability into a superpower to get stuff done and now my mission is to help others do the same. Read more about my journey

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